'Words
are not easy'. You may have memorized a myriad of vocabulary lists, you know
the grammar needed to hold a conversation and still find yourself lost when you
want to express yourself.
There are several reasons behind this phenomenon, some of them
more obvious than others. In this article, I would like to give you some
recommendations to help you overcome the difficulties you can experience, using
some of the simplest methods to improve your communication skills in
English.
1. Slow down the speed when you speak
May be you are an eloquent speaker when it comes to your
mother tongue, but expect the same standards when spoken in a foreign language
may not be very realistic. To overcome this difficulty, it is best to reduce
the speed when talking. Great speakers do the same to convey their message.
Carefully select your words. Show that you are interested in the
conversation. Let it be noticed that you are interested in giving the best
possible answer.
2. Give yourself time to think
Sometimes it may seem that the one listening to you is impatient.
Probably it is not true: people often prefer a well-thought-out response to the
hasty. Another practical thing you can do is to have some fixed sentences that
you can use when staying silent is not an option. The speaker earns a
considerable amount of time to reflect simply by repeating the question and
adding a few sentences. If you do the same, you will sound more fluid and you
will not feel the pressure of having to say anything before you are ready.
3. Learn sentences, not just words
In a way, this will also eliminate the pressure. When
you learn a new word, try to memorize a couple of sentences that contain it. It’ll
come a time when you can use a particular sentence with little or no alteration.
4. Learn to listen
When you speak in a foreign language, you can be so focused
on whether what you say is right or not, that you forget to hear what others
say. This is a big mistake because they might be using the exact words or
grammar you'll need later. So pay attention to what is said around you,
it is a very important resource when talking to someone.
5. Practice your questions
Ask questions! It not only shows you are interested, but also
offers a dialogue to not end up being the one who has to talk all the time.
Therefore, when you run out of ideas about what to say,
remember: others might have something to add.
The questions will keep the conversation on, and will show
your interest in other people's opinions. Questions will also give
you time to relax a bit and start having fun. Make sure you spend
enough time learning the right ways to ask questions.
6. Produce, produce, Produce
As I said at the beginning of this article, you may know
something about the English language, but this knowledge is passive and must be
activated in some way.
Your goal is to produce correct and fluent English; practice
is undeniably the best way to learn and improve. Speaking is a spontaneous
process and nothing prepares you better than begin to learn and practice. It will
be a great experience!
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